Check your motives Ok let’s get real, you have this creative spark, an idea, and it’s so deep and innate that your passion just flows right out of you. People can sense that type of truth coming out of you. It’s a beautiful thing to create and work towards a life purpose with things that ring true to your heart; until someone shows up and tries to mimic you and just pisses you off. The truth is, it’s amazing to see people be successful, it’s even more amazing when they do it from a place where you know it’s from their heart. But then, there are those who just want to do it because, “hey, if she can do it so can I and I don’t really want to do the work but I’ll just act as though it’s what brings me joy.” Have you ever been faced with that? I have! The thing is people, I can read your motives and I think I’m pretty good at sensing the difference between true heart felt passion vs. trying to make a buck.
Here is the truth, I cannot stand it when people do things only because of fear and because they want to find easy ways to make money. I grew up with a father like that, good heart but constantly looking at ways to make quick money without investing the time and energy it takes to build an empire…your empire. If you are someone who believes in the laws of attraction you would understand how I manifest people who want to use me to leverage their business and then when I speak my truth they talk shit behind my back! Yay to the haters!!
Here’s my fancy metaphysical perspective: it’s normal for people to mimic others and maybe even be jealous of others successes. We were told our whole lives that there isn’t enough for everyone in the world, so we compete, are sneaky, secretive and lie about our accomplishments because we don’t feel good enough with where we are right now.
So, my contrast has to do with the point of attraction, I have decided to delete and cut ties with this negative vibration completely. So in other words, people who hold that vibration are no longer welcomed in my life. It’s the healthiest decision I’ve ever made. I can’t swallow another word down to spare you and your bruised ego, and no I will no longer be used or abused and above all I won’t put myself in these situations anymore. I take ownership for my part, as for yours I don’t care if you’re sorry until your blue in the face. You should have checked your motives instead of playing two faced games.
In the end there is enough to go around for everyone. So figure out who you truly are and be authentic to that. Don’t bring people down because of your fear of failure. You want support, check your motives. See if what you are creating is in alignment to your beliefs, values and creativity. Otherwise, be wise enough to take a step back and reassess why you’re doing this to begin with.
I love what I do because my whole life I was intrigued with all that I have created. From meditation to crystals to this blog, not because I want to be anyone else but because I needed a forum to heal myself. The rest happened organically. Always be true to your heart, I know my motives are genuine. May Love and Light Guide You Home,
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Check Your Motives
Check your motives
Ok let’s get real, you have this creative spark, an idea, and it’s so deep and innate that your passion just flows right out of you. People can sense that type of truth coming out of you. It’s a beautiful thing to create and work towards a life purpose with things that ring true to your heart; until someone shows up and tries to mimic you and just pisses you off.
The truth is, it’s amazing to see people be successful, it’s even more amazing when they do it from a place where you know it’s from their heart. But then, there are those who just want to do it because, “hey, if she can do it so can I and I don’t really want to do the work but I’ll just act as though it’s what brings me joy.” Have you ever been faced with that? I have! The thing is people, I can read your motives and I think I’m pretty good at sensing the difference between true heart felt passion vs. trying to make a buck.
Here is the truth, I cannot stand it when people do things only because of fear and because they want to find easy ways to make money. I grew up with a father like that, good heart but constantly looking at ways to make quick money without investing the time and energy it takes to build an empire…your empire. If you are someone who believes in the laws of attraction you would understand how I manifest people who want to use me to leverage their business and then when I speak my truth they talk shit behind my back! Yay to the haters!!
Here’s my fancy metaphysical perspective: it’s normal for people to mimic others and maybe even be jealous of others successes. We were told our whole lives that there isn’t enough for everyone in the world, so we compete, are sneaky, secretive and lie about our accomplishments because we don’t feel good enough with where we are right now.
So, my contrast has to do with the point of attraction, I have decided to delete and cut ties with this negative vibration completely. So in other words, people who hold that vibration are no longer welcomed in my life. It’s the healthiest decision I’ve ever made. I can’t swallow another word down to spare you and your bruised ego, and no I will no longer be used or abused and above all I won’t put myself in these situations anymore. I take ownership for my part, as for yours I don’t care if you’re sorry until your blue in the face. You should have checked your motives instead of playing two faced games.
In the end there is enough to go around for everyone. So figure out who you truly are and be authentic to that. Don’t bring people down because of your fear of failure. You want support, check your motives. See if what you are creating is in alignment to your beliefs, values and creativity. Otherwise, be wise enough to take a step back and reassess why you’re doing this to begin with.
I love what I do because my whole life I was intrigued with all that I have created. From meditation to crystals to this blog, not because I want to be anyone else but because I needed a forum to heal myself. The rest happened organically. Always be true to your heart, I know my motives are genuine.
May Love and Light Guide You Home,
Christina
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